Faith
Truth
For capable Christians who are strong for everyone else, but know there is one area of their own life where hesitation, overthinking or fear keeps getting in the way of action.
Hosted live by P.Sol · Certified Identity Coach · 26 years in Pastoral Ministry
"I wasn't sure it would really speak to the challenges I was facing. The workshop helped me look at certain things from a different perspective and challenged some assumptions I had been carrying. That shift in understanding was a real breakthrough for me. A valuable and worthwhile experience."
Irene, London · July 2026 WorkshopA conversation you keep not having.
A boundary you keep not setting.
An opportunity you keep not pursuing.
A decision you keep making, then reopening.
Something you need to start, or need to stop.
A part of yourself you are tired of hiding.
You know. That is not the missing piece. But when the moment comes, you go over it again. You wonder how it will look. You ask one more person. You put it back down. And the year moves anyway.
So the real question is not what you should do. It is why knowing has not been enough.
Once we stop calling everything a confidence problem, we can begin asking better questions.
This does not replace Scripture, prayer, your pastor or godly counsel. All of it stands. It simply asks a different question. What happens inside me when I already know what is true, and still do not live like it?
You have prayed about it. Thought about it. Maybe asked for advice more than once. And still, when the moment comes to speak, decide, apply or move, something in you pulls back.
Sometimes waiting is wisdom. And sometimes fear quietly asks for one more sign, one more conversation, one more guarantee.
Break-OUT NOW gives you the space to tell the difference, and choose one honest next step.
An opportunity opens. You think, what if they find out I am not what they think I am. Anxiety arrives. You wait a day. Waiting feels better immediately. The opportunity closes. And now you have fresh evidence for the thing you already suspected: I never move when it counts.
The pattern did not get stronger because you chose a smaller life. It got stronger because avoiding worked, every single time, for about an hour.
Every BREAK-OUT NOW session is guided by the same four questions.
What is true?
Faith anchors the process in truth rather than allowing fear, feelings or other people's opinions to become the final authority. We begin with what is true. But knowing truth is only the beginning.
What may be happening in my response?
We look at interpretation, emotion, learned responses, avoidance and reinforcement. Because when you understand why a response may keep repeating, you can stop confusing a learned pattern with who you are.
What am I living from?
What belief, role or expectation may be shaping how you respond? Who did you learn you needed to be to remain safe, useful, accepted or approved of? We bring those assumptions into the light so they do not keep making decisions in the background.
What will I do now?
Truth has to become behaviour somewhere. So every session moves toward one responsible action in real life. Insight that never becomes behaviour is just a good afternoon.
One clear next move, created within 24 hours. Don't wait for confidence to become a feeling.
Small enough that you will actually do it. Meaningful enough that it changes something. Clear enough that afterwards you can say: "I did it."
Because confidence does not only come from thinking differently. It grows when you create new evidence:
"I was uncomfortable. And I acted anyway."
Four places hesitation tends to show up. One real situation at a time. One action within 24 hours. Come for the Saturday that feels like yours, or come for all four and see what connects them.
For the thing you know you need to do but keep postponing.
For the conversation, boundary or "no" you keep rehearsing instead of expressing.
For the choice you keep reopening after you thought you had clarity.
For the opportunity, move or next chapter you keep telling yourself you'll pursue "soon."
And especially if you are the one everybody else leans on, and there is an area of your own life nobody is holding for you.
Who this is not forThis is coaching. The decisions stay yours.
You don't have to arrive confident. You do need to arrive willing.
She almost stayed away, unsure it would even speak to what she was facing.
"Some of the things I had believed about my challenges were not actually the way I had perceived them. It helped me look at things from a different perspective, and challenged some assumptions I had been carrying."
"Go in with an open mind and be willing to participate and reflect. You may discover things about yourself you hadn't considered before."
Workshop participant, July 2026.
She had begun assuming that home and motherhood might define the limits of what remained possible for her.
Nothing about those roles changed, and nothing needed to. What changed was the idea that they marked the limit.
She has since expanded her charitable work internationally, running events across several countries.
"I felt a new zest within me to pursue my purpose."
Individual experiences vary. Her results are her own.
Her business worked, but it had stopped growing, because she had moved from building it to maintaining it without ever deciding to.
As her own perspective shifted, she started letting herself imagine again.
Within the year she had expanded her property portfolio.
"I can breathe again. I can be me again."
Individual experiences vary. Her results are her own.
Twenty-six years in Pastoral Ministry. Most of it spent helping people understand truth, purpose, faith and who they are. And then a question I could not get around in my own life.
From the outside nothing was wrong. Inside I knew I was living underneath what I was made for, and I could not explain why.
How does someone genuinely know what is true and still not live like it?
Knowing truth and responding from truth are connected, but they are not the same process, and nobody had ever taught me the second one.
That question led me to the four pillars I now bring together in Break-OUT NOW: Faith, Brain Science, Identity Renewal and Strategic Action.
Because sometimes the missing piece is not another truth to learn. It is understanding what happens inside you when it is time to live the truth you already know.
I did not make these four Saturdays free because this work has little value. I made them free because you should not have to commit to deeper coaching before you understand what is actually keeping you stuck.
BREAK-OUT NOW gives you space to:
For some people, that will be enough to make an important decision or change one immediate situation. For others, the four Saturdays reveal something bigger.
The issue was never only one conversation, one boundary or one opportunity.
It is a pattern affecting how you decide, relate, speak, lead or move toward what matters. And once you see that clearly, you may decide you do not simply want to understand the pattern. You want to change it more deeply and consistently.
That is where my deeper coaching work begins. There is no pressure to continue. But if BREAK-OUT NOW shows you that you are ready for deeper support, I will show you what the next step looks like.
BREAK-OUT NOW helps you see the pattern and begin changing the evidence. Deeper coaching is where we work on making the new response consistent enough to become how you live, decide and act.
Bring the real situation. We'll look at what is actually happening underneath it, and identify your next move.
One registration gives you access to all four September Saturdays. Come for the one you need, or come for all four and see what connects them. No payment. Your first name and email, and your place is held.
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60 minutes · Live online · Free